• Kari Gregory

What if I live, "As if..."?

"As if..." what? We are several weeks into 2019 and many of us have set our sights on some goals. We don't need to call them 'resolutions' and sometimes prefer not to use that R word. Why? Because sometimes we believe that a resolution(shhhh, I used it again) is destined for failure.

Let's reframe and consider what happens if we look toward the process of succeeding at a goal. If I conduct myself "As if..." then I am living as if ___________ is occurring. You may fill in that blank with any word of phrase.

For example, if financial responsibility is on your radar(a different R word), then begin living as if you are financially responsible. What does that look like?

Perhaps you were adding meal planning to 2019's calendar. Start living as if you are meal planning. To coin a well-used slogan, Just Do It. Meal plan.

Now you see how living "As if..." works. Ta-da!


This is where Success Coaching comes into play. You get to carve out some space with a coach to uncover some goals, the potential road blocks(maybe previous history or the 'what if' scenarios) and then experience some coaching techniques, like living "As if..." to get you there. It's a proven successful approach.


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